stumped for answers

there are just too many questions in life.  and i'm beginning to think answers just aren't meant to be.

• is it more important to be honest or nice?
• do u allow a child to fail, no matter how large the failure?  or do u take away their choice?
• do u pretend to be happy when you're not? or do u share your experiences for the benefit of others?
• are girls required to keep toes painted even if they will be in tennis shoes?
• do u stop being friends with someone if their standards are different than yours?
• what would life be like if we used 50% of our brains?
• if i don't like meat, am i still obligated to cook it for my family?
• if u don't like someone, do u think you'll still wish they were alive after they die?
• if u speed past someone, and they try to talk to u at the stoplight, do u roll your window down?
• are u obligated to tell a child you like their art, even if it looks like a disaster?
• why are presents a necessity?
• if you're invited to dinner, and you're grossed out by what's being served, do u eat it anyway?
• do u decorate if you're living in a rental?
• do u tell your kids that santa and the tooth fairy aren't real if they ask?
• should children be limited in the amount of food they get?
• should grandmas be allowed on facebook and twitter?
• if someone calls and u don't want to talk to them, do u feel obligated to answer?
• if someone plays an april fool's joke on u, do u return the favor?
• do u get offended if someone tells u your outfit doesn't match?
• is it better to take schools loans and be done fast? or work your way through and go slower?
• mcdonalds, burger king, wendys, or chik-fil-a?